One Hurtle Down

The judge signed the temporary guardianship papers yesterday for one of my sisters and I to be co-guardians of my father.   This means there will be a hearing scheduled in the next 60-90 days for permanent guardianship.  We have a conservator who will handle our father’s estate (property, etc.) and measly pension from the VA and Social Security.

Now . . . things are going to be hitting that proverbial fan when certain siblings find out, ‘cuz their gravy train has lost its engine.

Dementness

Just a bit of an update . . . . we’ve been absolutely consumed with the affairs dealing with my dad. We go to the attorney’s office this morning to seek emergency guardianship. We have a small cadre of siblings (three out of seven) who have used my father as a bank or an ATM machine, and the flippin’ drama level is unbelievable. My language has really deteriorated - I’m using ‘fuckery’ and its various forms more. I don’t think I do drama well - or stress.

I see Bush is still the president. Where’s that goddamned Cheney? Rev. Wright has finally pissed off Obama enough for a very public disavowing, etc. April is the deadliest month since last September (2007).

As for what’s going on in Idaho. Hmmm - all I know for sure is that stretch of I-84 between Nampa and Meridian is still in the most terrible shape. And - I’m sorry, but I do not GET why the Garrity Blvd exit/on-ramp has so many accidents. I’m sure it has something to do with Calyfornia!

And - today Willie Nelson is 75!  Nope, he’s not demented; he’s just stoned.  Ya know, I just had an idea.

How Misogynist is This?

My father for all his foibles had six daughters who he would tell from time to time, ‘you can do anything or be anything you want.’ It was his way of telling us we were just as capable or smart, even more so, than ‘the boys.’ My father’s education for some reason “lapsed” after middle school. He didn’t attend high school, and it was really just a few years ago that I realized just how functionally illiterate he is. He can read and write but it’s at very basic level - we’re thinking around 3rd-4th grade level, which I’ve told my sister isn’t too far off what level the average American newspaper is directed towards.

Now - my father has voted solidly Republican since before 1944, which is when he tells me he voted for Thomas Dewey; it did so both times he also mentions - the other being 1948. Knowing my father it’s borne out of a libertarian streak. Of course, this is the same man who told me in 2002 that Hillary Clinton should be president and he would vote for her in a heartbeat. He had for the first time in his life voted Democratic in the 2000 presidential election.

The point I’m attempting to illustrate is that my father although an apparent die-hard Republican with a cursory education recognized that the value of women - or at the very least, his own daughters - certainly matched or extended beyond that of men.

Yesterday the Senate voted on the pay discrimination bill, Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act. It didn’t get the 60 votes it needed. My father will tell the likes of the Larry Craig and Mike Crapo - as well as in the House, Mike “Football is More Important” Simpson, and that other dullard, Bill Sali, that every one of his daughters bucked hay, topped corn, and irrigated crops. And if they can do that as good as or better than any man, then they can do anything. Harry Reid of Nevada also voted ‘No’ but anyone who follows the legislature knows the tactic there. “(*Senator Reid is a strong supporter of the bill, but for technical reasons he had to vote No. As Senate Majority Leader, this will enable him to bring the bill up at another time.)”

The primary ‘argument’ presented by the ReThugs = this decision will produce an avalanche of lawsuits. How likely is that when this act is to reverse the Supreme Court’s decision originally rendered in 2007? Workplace discrimination is covered under Title VII of the 1964 Civil Rights Act

Title VII’s prohibition of workplace discrimination applies not just to pay but also to specific actions like refusal to hire or promote, denial of a desired transfer and dismissal.

It’s a matter of justice, simply. A matter of simple economic justice.

If your Senator voted NO: Call (202) 224-3121 - Leave the message that you disapprove of their vote. Elaborate if you want . . . . politely, I remind myself.

Of course, Mitch McConnell - minority leader - voiced his disapproval:

“Here we are, shut down on a Wednesday afternoon, no action in the Senate, in order to accommodate the Democratic candidates for president’s schedule,” Minority Leader Mitch McConnell of Kentucky said Wednesday.

Though several Republicans joined Democrats in voting to break the filibuster, the 56-42 vote was four short of the needed 60.

McConnell urged senators to block the bill and stick with a debate on a veterans benefits bill pending in the Senate. But Majority Leader Harry Reid of Nevada blamed Republicans for stalling action on that bill to complain about the equal pay bill.

I have trouble understanding how my friend would have the gall to stand on the floor and make the comment he did, but he did,” Reid said. He joined Republicans on the vote, a tactical move that allowed him to request the measure be reconsidered.

The bill, dubbed the Fair Pay Restoration Act, is a response to a 2007 Supreme Court decision that ruled a person who claims pay discrimination must file a complaint within 180 days of that discrimination taking place.

Small note: This restoration act doesn’t just apply to women, it would also include those men who have been discriminated against as well.

Earth Day 2008 - Is IT Really That Long Ago?

I can remember the first Earth Day. I even remember Earth Shoes . . . . anyone else?

Last year Grist posted on their web site the art of youngsters who had won the International Children’s’ Painting Competition on the Environment. This was the winning selection by Charlie Sullivan of the UK. Below is part of Charlie’s explanation of his art.  It’s pretty sobering given that Charlie was 12 when he won the contest.

The silhouette of a figure in my painting represents government and global businesses idle hold over the world. In the background the reds, oranges and yellows represents the fossil fuel power plants and warming of the planet while those that could act use the umbrella to shelter behind. The umbrella pictures the world being turned inside out and upside down by the wind. Therefore we must all act to save the world from being polluted. Global warming is an issue that we can all do something about by the 3Rs; reduce, reuse and recycle.

The Union of Concerned Scientists, an organization to which I belong, has a fantastic website.  There are a few publications: ‘Catalyst’ a news magazine, ‘Earthwise’ newsletter, and in depth reports.  “Exxon’s misinformation campaign” ~

While publicly expressing concern about global warming, oil giant ExxonMobil has quietly funded organizations that portray climate science as uncertain. This disinformation strategy parallels the tobacco industry’s campaign to confuse the public about the dangers of smoking.

Not that I’m a fan of Benedict XIV . . .  he is calling for mindful stewardship of the Earth.  I’m more impressed with the environmental mindfulness of the Dali Lama.  He doesn’t appear to be of the ‘do as I say, not as I do’ crowd.  Although this is an interesting read:

While the Vatican does indeed care for the environment, few seem to have noticed that the Holy See is the only state in the world that has not signed a single environmental treaty, presumably due to serious concerns over environmentalist ideology not to mention the heavy reporting requirements such treaties inevitably load on small states. Considering the time and energy devoted to the Kyoto Protocol, this would seem to be a conspicuous stain on the Vatican’s environmental bona fides. which means we must not exploit but use them to glorify the Creator, primarily by serving the needs of our fellow humans.

To anyone familiar with Catholic teaching on the environment, Benedict XVI’s position is familiar: human persons, created in the image and likeness of God, are called to exercise dominion and stewardship over the rest of creation. Plants, animals, and the rest of the environment are gifts from God,

So, Happy Earth Day.  Go - dig in the dirt or plant something!

Update:  Earth Shoes: 

Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act

Celebrate equal pay day on April 21st by contacting your senator and urging them to support the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act of 2007.

  • Senator Mike Crapo - Boise office: 334-1776 (fax: 334-9044)
  • Senator Larry Craig - Boise office: 342-7985 (fax: 343-245 8)

Lilly Ledbetter was an employee at Goodyear for nearly 20 years before she discovered that men in the same job were paid more. The Supreme Court ruled that wage discrimination complaints must be filed within 180 days of the initial discriminatory salary decision, even if the victim is unaware of the discrimination until much later. This 5-4 decision by the Bush Supreme Court reversed decades of precedent un wage discrimination cases decided under Title VII of the Civil Rights Act.

There is a reason that legislation on gender pay equity is needed — and needs to be taken seriously. The woman involved in the case that the Supreme Court decided was a supervisor — the only female supervisor — at a Goodyear plant, where she had worked for 20 years. She learned about the pay disparity issue late in her career — but that did not matter to the majority in this decision.

Bit of background on the Supreme Court’s decision. The SCOTUS decision is here; Justice Ginsberg’s scalding dissent follows the initial decision. Her dissent begins on page 28. Also dissenting were Souter, Stevens, & Breyer. The good ole’ white boyz and their house pet were the majority.

Alliance for Justice - Justice Watch blog …… SCOTUS blog

Call your senators immediately to urge them to vote yes on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act! The vote is expected Wednesday, April 23. This toll free number, 866-338-1015, will be available Monday through Wednesday.
The House has already passed the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act to correct the recent Supreme Court decision that guts the ability of women workers to sue for wage discrimination.

Celebrate Equal Pay Day by calling your senators toll-free at 866-338-1015 today!

Judging Presidential Jewelry

Having had some time to peruse the Internets, I ran across this gem at Crooks & Liars. It’s Bob Schieffer’s ending comments on ‘Face The Nation‘ this morning.

Patriotism is no more about signs or pins than religion is about reminding others how pious we think we are. No, the proof in these puddings is not the signs that we wear, but how we act. Wouldn’t that also be a better way to judge our presidential candidates than by the jewelry they wear?

No shit, Bob. I, for one, am more than sick and tired of those who assign patriotism based on some superficial standard all the while doing what THEY can to further the demise and downfall of this country and her people.

All this while in the background I’m listening to, what I think is a rerun of CNN’ s forum on religion with the democratic candidates. I’m not quite sure why it’s not all presidential candidates - to include John McCain rather than Hillary Clinton and Barack Obama. I just heard the question put to Hillary Clinton, “Do you think G*d wants you to be president?” Yeahh…like she’s really going to say, ‘Why of course she does! Don’t you?’ Barack Obama is up now.

Ah….here we go:

Messiah College has been selected to host The Compassion Forum, an unprecedented bipartisan presidential candidate forum dedicated to discussing pressing moral issues that bridge ideological divides within our nation. Senator Hillary Clinton and Senator Barack Obama have accepted the invitation to participate in the Forum. Senator John McCain has thus far declined the invitation, which is still open. The Compassion Forum is scheduled for 8 p.m. on Sunday, April 13, in Brubaker Auditorium, and will be covered by mainstream media and religious media outlets alike. CNN is the exclusive broadcaster of The Compassion Forum and will televise and stream the event live from 8-9:30 p.m.

A bit about Messiah College from there ‘About’ page:

Messiah College is a Christian college of the liberal and applied arts and sciences. The College is committed to an embracing evangelical spirit rooted in the Anabaptist, Pietist and Wesleyan traditions of the Christian Church. Our mission is to educate men and women toward maturity of intellect, character and Christian faith in preparation for lives of service, leadership and reconciliation in church and society.

Certainly sounds less threatening than the likes of John Hagee, Rod Parsley, and Franklin Graham. The college falls under the auspices of the Brethren in Christ church. The name of their quarterly publication, Shalom!…..that’s suspect, right there. If you are indeed interested, here’s some information. They even have a lacrosse team.

Sunday Morning Rumblings

First up - Danica Patrick. I don’t follow racing. I do keep loose track of Danica Patrick - um, because I drive fast just about everywhere I go. It’s that simple? No, she’s a woman in a predominantly man’s field.

AMERICAN Danica Patrick has become the first woman to win a major international motor race, with victory in the Indycar race at Japan’s Twin Ring Motegi circuit yesterday.

Harry Potter fans will get a look-see at Daniel Radcliffe in another acting ‘genre.’ Radcliffe is a member of the cast of ‘My Boy Jack’ - Rudyard Kipling’s story of his own son’s adventure during World War I. It’s on PBS tonight, Masterpiece Theater. Tonight at 9:00 p.m. Gearing up the TiVO.

Elliott at firedoglake has an amazing rundown of the talking heads this Sunday, including ‘60 Minutes’ and C-SPAN. A book I’m currently reading (skimming deeply) is on C-SPAN’s Book TV this weekend. Superclass: The Global Power Elite and the World They Are Making, by David Rothkopf .

Also of note is a program that illustrates the work of Erika Falk, whose book - Women for President: Media Bias in Eight Campaigns‘ divulges that:

‘the media has demonstrated gender bias in covering women candidates since the first woman ran for president of the United States in 1872. She examines the campaigns of eight women who have run for president through 2004 and compares them with the campaigns of their male opponents.

You can watch that program here.

I think Pope Benedict is moving in! Christ ‘o Friday - what the hell - going around talking about purifying the church, BUT . . . . on that note, check out the Buddhist ‘Thought of the Day’:

On hearing the Teachings, the wise become perfectly purified, like a lake: deep, clear, and still. - Buddha

On that note, here is video of a Faux Fox News “reporter” being so TOTALLY owned by Fr. Michael Pfleger, who is pastor of St. Sabina’s church in Chicago. Any Catholic who has been to Mass in a ‘Black church’ knows what “celebrating Mass” really means. Educated and articulate is so underrated, doncha think?!

Little Girl Voices

Coming into the house just now I sat down to watch a bit of the news.  Earlier on MSNBC, there was a clip earlier of some of the mothers from the Texas polygamy complex talking about their children.  What struck me - besides the obvious evasion of answering certain questions - was the tenor and tone of their voices.  That would be fairly high-pitched, fairly ‘feminine.’  It grates on my nerves because there’s a certain phony manipulative quality to it.  The clip with Meredith Veira was the most striking.

One of my nephews who is 11 was complaining the other day about one of his mother’s friends who uses “that little girl voice” to describe certain events or incidents.  It drives my nephew crazy who states simply, “I HATE it!”  Now perhaps there are those men who are turned on by squeaky-voiced women because it’s about control and dominance, but apparently my nephew isn’t in that category - at least yet.

My father has dementia.

My father has dementia.

Since August of last year when a psychiatrist at the VA declared him incompetent, one of my siblings has managed to drain his money market account, his savings account, his checking account, not to mention the line of credit that’s close to being maxed out. Credit card accounts have been opened in his name and maxed up, and even his dumpy ole’ car had been taken to use rather than the $42,000 Dodge Ram pickup, because ya know - gas is expensive, “over $4.00 a gallon for diesel!”

Some might actually understand because I’m sure our quintessential dysfunctional family is struggling with what other families are attempting to figure out. How to take care of an asshole who doesn’t remember (for the most part) being an asshole and is confused by our reticence, but yet - continues to be an asshole.

Quite simply put our father was a violent angry man who meted out his anger and violence on my mother. Every once in a great while, one of us would be the momentary target. But for the most part, my father wasn’t physically violent towards us which didn’t lessen the fear any. We have stories all right. Long ago though, I decided you just don’t beat on, smack around, say vile terrible things to people you truly love them. Only one of my other six siblings has managed to figure out the same with her children and act accordingly.

Now - we’re starting the process of guardianship and figuring out what to do.

This isn’t mentioned because I want sympathy or even empathy. It’s mentioned because I cannot believe how absolutely out of touch I became within a couple of days of dealing with this mess. It’s consuming. I’m about ready to buy some good pot just to sleep through the entire night without tossing and turning. But then - if I recall correctly - it made me paranoid which would seem to be counterintuitive - too paranoid to sleep. Today was the first day I’ve watched “the news” in a week. I am quite saddened to see that Bush and Cheney are still sequestered in D.C.

What this has highlighted is what many American families go through and why many people simply cannot keep up with what’s going on in the country, let alone around the world.

At any rate . . . posting intermittently at best.

Oh - one thing, I either never realized or had forgotten was my father’s bigotry and biases. Now we’re talking about a man who fathered a son with a woman who was Inupiat while stationed in Alaska. We’re talking about my older brother. We’re driving from Kuna to Boise on the freeway. My father hasn’t been that route in some years so he was stunned at the amount of ‘new’ building/construction and other business along the interstate. Who’s behind all that? The Jews . . . . “those goddamned Jews.” I thought I heard that but wasn’t sure because I’m sitting behind him in the back seat of my sister’s SUV, but I did see my sister roll her eyes and shake her head. Then he said it again, and I said - “enough with the Jews. The Jews aren’t responsible for anything.” Later on the campus of the VA, we’re walking down the sidewalk and a man approached who was obviously Asian. My father greeted him, “Hi, Louie.” I asked my father if he knew the man passing by. He said, “No, but he’s a Chinaman isn’t he?” That was it for my sister.

Christ! And today is just starting . . . . God help us if Dad finds out the Pope is in country.

ReStore - Habitat For Humanity

Boise Valley Habitat for Humanity has a re-sale store -
ReStore - opening soon where all proceeds go to support the Boise Habitat for Humanity. This is accomplished by selling building materials, either new or used (in clean, working condition). Materials sold are those classified as “residential home improvement” ranging from paint, lighting & fixtures, windows and doors, roofing needs, tile, etc. - you get the idea. I stumbled upon it while out yesterday doing the usual Saturday puttering and errands. One reason (the only reason) for the phone camera quick shot.

The scheduled business opening is Tuesday, April 8th. The Grand Opening will be the 24th of April. Volunteers were there setting up over the weekend.

It’s located in the Country Square shopping center, southeast corner of 5 Mile & Overland roads, right next door to Hasting’s Video, down the way from “the best deli in town”, Hugo’s Deli, and then there’s Walgreens. For reference: southwest corner is Fred Meyers; northeast corner: Albertson’s.

Pertinent Info:

ReStore @ Country Square center - 10537 W. Overland Rd -Boise, 375-5256.

Hours of Operation: Tuesday - Saturday: 9:00 am - 6:00 pm

Pass it along…….